Not Into You Chap 2

He’s Just Not That Into You by Greg and Liz
Chap 2: He’s just not that into you if he’s not calling you. Men know how to use the phone.

Greg note: We like taking a break from our generally mundane day to talk to someone we like. If men are into you, you would be the bright spot in a horrible busy day. When you like someone, they don’t just slip your mind. If they are into you they actually do what they said they were going to do. We have become a sloppy bunch of people. We say things we don’t mean. We make promises we don’t keep and we know we do. We now don’t even expect people to keep their word. Saying he is busy, too busy to call, is another way to tell you that he’s not into you. The word “busy” in the relationship weapon of mass destruction. Remember: Mean are never too busy to get what they want.

Liz note: We get it. Guys should be attentive and thoughtful. But when we meet the one guy who really does have the prefect excuse for being a flake and since we like him so damn much we want to cut them some slack.
It’s hard to know when to cut lose and move on. He forgets to call me one night –am I supposed to just dump him? He forgets to call me three times- is that when I dump him?
Just try to notice when a guy’s behavior starts making you feel bad about yourself- when you are in constant state of uneasiness and crying. Meeting someone you like and dating him is supposed to make you feel better, not worse. No matter what the special circumstances/excuses are.

Dea note: I do agree with him on this. I’m a very busy girl and I do make sure guys know that, although sometimes it is very hard to call someone if I’m on a shoot, but there are always breaks and so if I care about the person I always try to call them back. If I miss someone, no matter how busy I am, I always think of them and like to talk to them, I even talk to them when I’m working on something. So I expect that if someone is into me that they do make the time for me like I make the time for them, no matter how busy and crazy life gets. Thank goodness for the invention of voicemail, it’s there for a reason! Sometimes my phone doesn’t ring (due to service problems, beyond my control) and I get a message saying I have voicemail (and I never not gotten the message saying I have it), so even if they don’t answer leave a message! Use it. I also hate to have someone I’m dating call me everyday, emails fine cuz it gives me something to read and do at work when I’m bored, space is important to me, only if we have been serious for a long while makes me want to talk to them everyday.
They even polled more info on this subject 100% of the men said they are never too busy to call a woman they were really into.