Hello, good day to you!
I hope you are well. If not then do not worry you’ve come to the right blog. I wanted to start this blog to help people since after so many heart breaks learning and growing from each I want to be able to share my thoughts and beliefs in hopes to enrich your life and help you through it all.
I am a 25yr old living in Washington. I am a realist first with a pinch of idealism. I am a person that follows my own path. My faith is with God, for he is my Lord and Savior. I am an optimistic with lots of curiosity. My mind is always wondering and pondering things. From what others believe to what I believe, I like to keep my mind open so I can change, grow and learn.
My first love was a Poseidon archetype, my second love was the Hades archetype and my last love was the Zeus archetype. With each one I choose to ignore the red flags that screamed he wasn't the one and I just looked at the signs that told me he was the one. Even though I tried braking up with each, I always took them back since I had put there feelings before mine and in the end it was them who dumped me without a care to how I felt. I have been in love and I have fallen victim to lust and I have learned the difference between them.
I have learned to take a step back each time I have fallen to reflect on what happened and picked myself up to try again. I had reached out for answers through psychology and reading many articles on MSN about love/relationships/happiness/etc, and it has inspired me to strive to be better. So now I have learned, I have grown, and I have changed for the better and I will change my life.
Now my outlook on life is to enjoy it and not worry. Things happen for a reason and you can turn a negative into a positive. Next time I will pay attention and not fall into being a vulnerable dithering moron. I will get what I deserve for I do deserve it.
Strive to be the best you! So now I just want to be able to help people and bless those around me.
So if you are heart broken and confused, do not worry about what others think, read and get an idea of how many people think differently. There is no right or wrong. Make up your own beliefs and principles and take pride in that.
Learn about what you want and how you can hold on to it. Remember that you are not the only one going through this, I have been there heartbroken and confused wondering who was right and who was wrong and being told that I was wrong.
Through my research I have found out that I am not wrong, no one is wrong, we just have a different view and that’s ok. Yes there are some parts that it should be obvious that there might be a wrong and right based on studies. So I take both sides into account and make up what I think is right based on what I feel is to be right. To each their own, live and let live.
“Do what you feel in your heart is to be right, for you’ll be criticized, anyway. You’ll be ‘damned if you do, and damned if you don’t’” Eleanor Roosevelt.
I do hope the best for you and I do hope you find what you are looking for. I also hope you enjoy my blog and I hope I do get some feedback, just keep in mind what I’ve said. I hope I can inspire you to live a happy life and strive for the best!
Take care, DM Selstead
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