a Pedestal & a Mask

At the beginning of a relationship we tend to put our partner on a pedestal and we stay blind to their imperfections.
Putting your partner on a pedestal raises your expectations of who they are and who they should be, but once they do not rise to it, they fall off hard. It can really hurt the relationship and both of you, since it makes you fall out of love.
If you are really looking to find someone to love and spend your life with then do not put them on a pedestal instead look at their imperfections and find a way to turn it into a positive for that is just how they are and you learn to love them for it.
True love does not come from finding the perfect person but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

We also tend to put up a good fake front to make ourselves look better and in a few months we drop it.
Be yourself, without worrying what the other person will think of you. You shouldn’t feel like you have to be someone you are not just to be loved. A person should love you for who you are, not what you think they think you should be.
A relationship built on lies will fall apart at the truth.

BE HONEST
BE TRUE