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Sexual arousal triggers surges of feel good neurotransmitter dopamine and hormone oxytocin which stimulates feelings of attachment and love.
Jumping into bed too soon is a mistake people make often because heat and hormones can be mistaken for true affinity.
Waiting to have sex will help in the long run. Take time to get to know the person and take time to connect with them. The more connected you feel, the better the sex will be. It also helps so that you do it for the right reasons. The longer you wait, the clearer your sense of where you stand with your partner. You won’t confuse chemistry with compatibility.
True sexual empowerment is about knowing who you are and knowing what you need to be fulfilled both emotionally and physically.
Jumping into bed too soon can turn things bad. Charming turns to being immature and enthusiasm was just hyperness.
Wrong reasons for sleeping with someone can lead to unhappy endings. When we rush into bed the chances are greater that we find ourselves wanting them more or less than they want us. It can also lead to irreversible consequences. It’s not an issue to take lightly or casually and its heaviness can catch up with you.
Great sex can cloud your judgment. So if you say I love you afterwards that’s just the hormones talking and that isn’t where love is based, that is lust.
It is best to come up with a sexual timing that works best for you, your health, and well-being.
Ask yourself some questions before jumping into bed with someone and keep in mind each time you are with someone you give a piece of your self away.
1) Do you get easily hurt? If so then the best thing is to wait.
2) What if they don’t call you or talk to you again? If the thought of them never talking to you makes you said then it is best to wait. Make sure where you both stand.
3) Is this person worth giving a piece of your self too? Give yourself away too much and you won’t have anything left to give to the person who deserves it.
Look back at all of your past relationships and think of how they went and how you felt. Learn from them and if it didn’t work out take a different approach and make your own rules on love, sex, and relationship.

So many times I’ve let sex cloud my judgment and let the hormones trick me into false feelings of attachment and love, and too many times I let them become too real.
For me, I need a deeper connection and bond, I need to be intimate and make sure I love the person for all that they are and that they love me the same in return for that makes sex great. I will wait and save myself for someone who deserves it; so that way I know it is love and not lust. So when I say I love you and they return that love then I know we have a solid relationship.

"When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving oneself, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what the world calls a romance.” Oscar Wilde