Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Seeing the Green Flags

GREEN means GO! Signs they are a keeper! From the small gestures to the big ones. Sometimes it can take a while for the green flags to show up, so give it time. Good things take time.

1) They want to meet those that are important to you and would go out of their way to do so.

2) They make scarifies and work out compromises to make both of you happy. Double green if they are civil about it.

3) They are kind to others. A person that can treat others no matter their income level or station in life will treat you in a more considerate way, no matter your profession or family.

4) They are an active listener and follow up on questions about details. It shows they are capable of caring about someone else and not just going through the motions.

5) They focus on your eyes when you are talking, it shows that what you have to say is important to them.

6) They have your sense of humor; you get each other’s jokes. It insures you will have an animated lively life together.

7) They respect your interests. They allow you to follow your passion even if it takes time away from them. A person who values you will make the most out of the time you two have or would try to enjoy it with you.

8) They accept you for all your glory and flaws. That may take time to tell if they do or not. So take the time.

9) They don’t expect the world from you. They don’t expect you to do everything for them. If someone truly adores you then the finer things shouldn’t matter.

10) They have put their emotional baggage in the closet and they don’t bring it up. They have moved on with their life and live in the here and now. A great relief!

11) They are exciting and always evolving. They like to try new things, have new hobbies, and just full of small surprises. Being bold and not afraid to take risks, always up to trying new things and exploring life.

12) They put in the effort to keep things sizzling and open to ideas by keeping the passion burning.

13) They bring out the best in you for they have your best interest at heart. They let you keep your independence and respect your sense of self.

14) They will support you in whatever you choose to do. They have your back and will be on your side through thick and thin.

15) They realize that you have their best interest at heart when they push and challenge you. If they can look at things from a different point of view and can use that to become a better person.

16) When they don’t get upset at you for disagreeing with them, it shows respect for your opinions.

17) They realize what you do and what they do and acknowledge it. From the good to the bad.

18) His emotional intelligence matches yours, along with your immaturity and maturity.

19) They are more concerned with your recovery if you have been hurt and will recognize barriers and support them by backing off.

20) They don’t get easily jealous, it shows that they are secure in the relationship and trust you.


21) ALL the complete opposite of the red flags!


* Watch out for those fake green flags, I know from experience that someone can still show you these green flags but they turn out to be fake since they weren’t sincere and was only out to make themselves happy, not caring to make someone else happy, but all the red flags were there too. I know some of you out there might use this to get what you want and put up a great fake front to get it, but if you abuse these and are not sincere with them then that is creating bad karma for you. So please don’t abuse this for your own personal gain, do not create bad karma. Be sincere and honest; don’t be selfish or fake. Look for the red flags too!*

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