Joys of Singlehood

So you are partner-less, that doesn’t mean you have to be miserable. Make the most out of being single. Learn about yourself again, explore opportunities, and do things you didn’t have time for while you had someone attached to your hip.
Live your life on your terms. Pursue interests that were on the back burner. Travel, take a class, and get on self-improvement kick.
Be a sexy free agent and flirt around a party without worrying about pissing off a watchful partner. Those guilt-free, ego-boosting moments that makes being single great. Revel in those opportunities and couples will envy you.
It is not sad or pathetic to be partner-less, we are not brainwashed to believe it’s unbearable. You are your own boss to do as you please.
Take the time to know you and establish your individualism. Learn to love yourself and be a complete person by yourself.
I’m sure if you have been through a bad breakup that made you feel like you had to be someone you aren’t to please the person that you are feeling like you can’t be loved for who you are. So it’s important to take time for yourself and learn to love yourself for who you are. There is nothing wrong with you, you are wonderful and great in your own way, and if that person couldn’t see it and accept that, then good riddance. So pick that chin up and take time for yourself and I’m sure you’ll be happier.
Look at being single as a chance to be more daring. You are never too old to become more daring.
If we never take risks, we never fall, we never learn, and we don’t progress. Being able to be daring lets you experience the full feelings of being a human.
Daring means following your dreams and passion, being curious about the world, stepping out of routine and finding adventure. By feeling your fear and doing it anyways you gain more confidence. Learn a new skill because it feels good.
If you are feeling down remember your childhood and what made you happy and remember the things you loved. Go back to your roots and indulge your inner child by getting back to things you did as a kid.

Why I choose to be single
1) For all the reasons above
2) I love my life and what I have built and created for myself. I’m happy and content.
3) I do not need anyone to validate me; I know my worth. Plus most of the time the guy will take that away.
4) I’m too busy with family, jobs and my hobbies. I follow my passion wherever it might take me.
5) I do not need anyone to make me feel shiny and new; I feel like a gem already. Plus, again, most of the time guys can make you feel like a pile of shit and I don’t need that or want that.
6) My faith, hope, and trust is with God.
7) Friends are more important to have.
8) And oh so many many many other reasons too.

My life has been happier without a male at my side. I have less stress and no panic attacks. I’m happy that I am my own boss and can do as I please without having to worry about someone else. I’m independent and only relaying on myself. After all I’ve put up with in my relationships, I was not happy or satisfied, and it just ended in heartache anyways. I would like to settle down but trying to find a good partner who can respect me and has the same views as me is very hard. But I have faith, hope and trust in God to bring me a partner that I could settle down with for after all I would love to settle down with just one person. But for now I’m having fun being my own boss, following my passion, learning and embracing all of me, being daring, and I’m making the most out of being single and I am in love with it!